第 328 期·中文精讀

約翰·達納赫:降服纏鬥、ADCC、動物搏鬥與刀具

John Danaher: Submission Grappling, ADCC, Animal Combat, and Knives

柔術教練談降服技訓練體系、ADCC 賽事,以及持刀與動物搏鬥的實戰邏輯。

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2022 年 ADCC 結束之後,約翰·達納赫(John Danaher)帶的隊伍交出了那屆賽事最好的一份團隊成績單。往前推十二個月,這支隊伍沒有訓練館,主力選手正在認真考慮退役,四分之三的競技隊員剛在一個星期內走光。

中間沒有出現什麼神秘的技術突破,也沒有天降天才。真正讓這支隊伍重新跑起來的,是一套關於身體怎麼練、信心從哪來、比賽究竟是個什麼東西的方法。這套方法裡幾乎沒有玄學成分。

紐約撐不下去了

達納赫的團隊原本紮在紐約,在一起很多年,用他的話說,是一支非常非常緊的隊伍。

疫情把這件事打斷了。在紐約維持高水平訓練變得極難,而隊裡絕大多數人對這座城市本來就沒有好感。達納赫是唯一喜歡紐約的人,也是唯一真正住在曼哈頓的人,其他人每天得通勤進城。

這個區別很關鍵。住在紐約和通勤進紐約是兩種體驗。通勤的人記住的是地鐵、堵車、糟糕的天氣和每天兩三個小時的路程,他們看到的是這座城市最不體面的一面。當疫情讓訓練變得幾乎不可能,所有人同時做出決定:走。

擺在達納赫面前的是二選一:跟這支隊伍徹底散夥,或者他離開生活了三十年的紐約。

我在紐約生活了三十年,我的人生是在那裡建起來的,我在這邊認識的朋友和熟人幾乎全是紐約人。但這些學生在忠誠這件事上做得極其到位,那我也應該對他們忠誠。(約翰·達納赫)

他選擇跟著走。

去波多黎各是多數票

達納赫本人想去德州,他認為德州對隊伍更合適。隊裡幾個核心人物,包括戈登·瑞安(Gordon Ryan)和克雷格·瓊斯(Craig Jones),之前去過波多黎各,在 ADCC 主要負責人莫·賈西姆(Mo Jassim)那裡待過,體驗非常好。幾乎所有人都想去波多黎各。

我試著跟他們解釋,去一個地方度假和在那裡生活,是兩件完全不一樣的事。但沒什麼效果。最後是多數票決定,去了波多黎各。(約翰·達納赫)

這句話後來成了整個故事的註腳。

他們在波多黎各一個叫多拉多(Dorado)的小鎮落腳。麻煩就出在“小鎮”這兩個字上。

在紐約,隊內矛盾天然帶緩衝。城市太大,訓練結束各自散回自己的生活和街區,第二天再來,矛盾被城市的體量稀釋掉了。

在多拉多,所有人住得很近,很多人住在一起。訓練結束之後,你還得跟剛才在墊子上跟你較勁的那個人一起吃晚飯、一起看電視、一起過完整個晚上和整個夜晚,第二天醒來還是他。

任何緊張關係都被放大了,因為你沒有任何喘息的空間。(約翰·達納赫)

隊裡有一對兄弟,家庭層面的矛盾在這種環境裡持續發酵。達納赫用了一個比喻:一棵小樹長在一棵大樹底下,小樹想往上長,樹冠擋住了光。有時候人需要自己的空間。

這個比喻放在競技體育裡極其貼切。同一支隊伍,同樣的教練,同樣的技術體系,能被分配的資源就那麼多。今天一起流汗的訓練夥伴,未來某天就是賽場上必須打倒的對手。

那一週,四分之三的人走了

矛盾逐漸升級,到後來幾個人已經很難同時待在同一個訓練房裡。調解失敗,一部分人決定搬去德州奧斯汀。

達納赫當時提的方案是:有矛盾先忍著,隊伍保持完整,等 2022 年 ADCC 打完再決定散不散。他判斷隊伍一旦拆開,整體實力會被嚴重削弱。這些人的訓練夥伴關係極好,技術水平正在快速上升,好幾個年輕人正處在突破期。這個方案被否決了。

更糟的是,去奧斯汀之前,雙方已經跟當地一家道館談好了合作。分裂的那批人把館拿走了,留下達納赫和剩下的人,在奧斯汀沒有場地,也沒什麼隊員。

大概四分之三的競技隊員,在一個星期之內離開了。(約翰·達納赫)

同期,戈登·瑞安的腸胃問題正處在最糟糕的階段。醫生層面一度無法確定他還能不能比賽,他本人也在認真考慮退役,可能再也不打了。

達納赫把那個時刻形容為整個專案擱淺在沙灘上:主力選手可能永久退出,競技隊員基本走空,剩下的人連像樣的訓練夥伴都湊不齊。這就是整支隊伍的最低點,距離 ADCC 只剩一年。

被問到當時腦子裡在想什麼,他的回答很平靜:

我的人生經驗是,所有糟糕的事情都會過去。我這輩子經歷過很多低谷,每次看起來最黑的時候,我的做法都是等。時間會治好大部分問題,全部做不到,大部分可以。我也確信,只要給我一批新學生,我能變出魔術來。只是需要時間。(約翰·達納赫)

他並不認為自己當時對 2022 年 ADCC 有把握。一年時間,沒有館,隊伍散了,參賽資格都成問題。他確信的是另一件事:給他足夠長的時間,他能重建。這兩件事同時成立,人才熬得過去。

新隊員是從本地道館裡一個個看出來的

第一個來的是強卡洛·博多尼(Giancarlo Bodoni)。他原本就是達納赫拍教學影片時的示範搭檔,住在波士頓。他一直想來德州訓練,可同體重級別的位置已經有人了,他覺得自己來了會尷尬。那些人走了,位置空出來,他第一個搬了過來。

達納赫開始在奧斯汀一家很小的本地道館教課。他形容那感覺像回到了自己最早練柔道的日子:從紐約的大型道館,到波多黎各的小館,再到奧斯汀更小的館。

他每天教兩次課,一週七天,一邊教一邊看。誰有潛力,誰能吃苦,誰在團隊裡待得住,他看得很清楚。看到合適的就招進來,帶去另一個館跟職業選手一起訓練。練得出來、肯下功夫、能融入團隊的,留下繼續長。

這樣一個個攢,攢出了幾個人。

盧克·格里菲斯(Luke Griffith),南非來的紫帶。他在 ADCC 歐洲選拔賽上輸了,來奧斯汀打了一場本地比賽,又輸了。狀態和前途都不太好。達納赫覺得這孩子人不錯、練得狠,就讓他成了主力訓練夥伴。他體型和戈登接近,達納赫鼓勵他儘可能多跟戈登對練。

丹·馬納索尤(Dan Manasoiu)也是選拔賽失利,必須再贏一場才能進 ADCC。

尼古拉斯·梅雷加利(Nicholas Meregali)的加入更戲劇化。他是那一代最出色的道服柔術選手之一,道服技術極其華麗,可他這輩子從來沒有一次不帶道服訓練過。戈登在波士頓拍教學影片時跟他碰上,兩人隨手切磋了一下,戈登給達納赫發訊息:這人很有天賦,人也好,想來德州訓練。

於是梅雷加利人生中第一堂無道服訓練課,對手是史上最好的無道服選手。

他後來在奧斯汀打了三場本地無道服比賽,一場比一場好。最後一場贏的是拉斐爾·洛瓦託(Rafael Lovato),美國史上最偉大的纏鬥選手之一。這場勝利讓 ADCC 方面確認了他的無道服水平足以拿到邀請。

順帶一提,洛瓦託在那一屆 ADCC 上的表現非常亮眼,隨後宣佈退役。達納赫對此的評價是:這是一場很體面的告別。

把技能砍到只剩這場比賽用得上的部分

人湊齊之後,達納赫做的第一件事是減法。

他把整套技術體系壓縮,只保留自己認為對 ADCC 備戰最核心的內容,其他無關的東西全部推到一邊。運動員在這一年裡幾乎只練這一件事。

我跟他們說,你們處在極其不利的位置。你們備戰的時間比任何人都短,而你們要面對的對手裡,有些人非常清楚我在教什麼,因為我教他們的時間比教你們長得多。(約翰·達納赫)

訓練強度是這件事裡最容易被低估的部分。一天最多三節課,聽起來不算誇張。達納赫特意補了一句:你試試看就知道了。那些課不是普通的技術課,是 ADCC 備戰課,對腦力和體力的消耗都極大。

很多人來跟我們一起練,幾天之內就掉隊了。別提幾個月,別提一整年。(約翰·達納赫)

結果是,馬納索尤、格里菲斯、奧利弗·塔扎(Oliver Taza)都贏下歐洲選拔賽,拿到了參賽資格。梅雷加利透過本地比賽證明了實力。整個隊伍在不到十二個月裡,從沒有館、沒有隊員,變成那一屆 ADCC 上表現最好的團隊。

備戰期間有個細節值得單獨說。梅雷加利還要去打無道服世錦賽,達納赫為此額外加了一節早課。梅雷加利拿下無道服公開組金牌,第二天回到德州,繼續 ADCC 備戰。

戈登那邊是另一種難度。他因為腸胃問題長期沒有比賽,為了在 ADCC 之前找回競技狀態,他給自己排了一個極其激進的賽程:先打當時的 WNO 冠軍佩德羅·馬里尼奧(Pedro Marinho),再打老對手菲利佩·佩納(Felipe Pena),唯一一個在棕黑帶之後降服過他的人,也是 2017 年 ADCC 上贏過他的人,最後才是 ADCC 本賽。

三場比賽,三套完全相反的規則。WNO 是十五分鐘限時,對佩納是無時間限制,ADCC 又是另一套計分和加時邏輯。原本的備戰被拉長成十四周,覆蓋三種規則體系。

信心是練出來的東西

被問到賽前心理建設,達納赫的回答把這件事的討論拉回了地面。

人們談心理準備的時候,往往忽略了一點:幾乎所有被稱作“心理準備”的東西,底子都在身體層面。我教給運動員的東西里,百分之九十五是身體技能。在我看來,比賽裡最重要的心理要素,也就是上場時的自信,是身體技能不斷累積的直接結果。(約翰·達納赫)

他把運動心理學裡最常見的那套做法批得很直接:心理師試圖用非身體的手段去製造信心,做出來的東西都差不多,勵志演講、高燃剪輯影片,往人身上灌一種人造的自信。他沒見過這套東西產生過正面效果。

真正建立信心的是另一條路徑:運動員在高度接近比賽條件的環境裡反覆使用某項技能,並且成功。成功次數積累到一定程度,信心自然長出來。

信心不來自語言。信心來自積累起來的技能,這些技能在過往經驗裡已經被證明能帶來好的表現。積累得夠多,信心就上去了。(約翰·達納赫)

這套邏輯能解釋很多讓人困惑的現象:為什麼有些人訓練裡強得離譜,比賽裡就散架。答案往往出在技能本身,他的技能從來沒有在接近比賽的壓力條件下被驗證過。

進攻往下打,防守往上打

具體到訓練安排,達納赫在進攻和防守上用了完全相反的順序。

練進攻,從能力弱於自己的對手開始。就像舉重不會讓新手一上來就推五百磅,而是先空杆、再鐵桿、再一點點加片。新技術也一樣,直接拿去對戈登·瑞安用,必定失敗,失敗一次就洩一次氣。

我讓運動員先在藍帶上練他們的進攻,然後一層層往上走。(約翰·達納赫)

練防守,反過來,直接扔進深水區。

防守必須從深水區開始,讓他們先看到自己的漏洞在哪裡。(約翰·達納赫)

先跟最強的對手打,被打出問題,知道問題在哪,再從低段位開始,一層層把信心建回來,同時把漏洞補上。

這兩種安排指向同一個機制:用可控的難度梯度替代硬扛。柔術裡的阻力不用槓鈴片來加,用對手的水平來加。

防守這件事,達納赫有一個更細的框架,他稱之為防守的縱深。它是一整條鏈路:最外層基於視覺預判,在危險成形之前就識別出來;往下一層是位置已經被破了之後的應對;最深一層是已經處在百分之百劣勢的糟糕位置,必須一點點爬回中立位,甚至爬回進攻位。

這條鏈路要一層層練,每一層都要在對應的阻力下被驗證過。

備戰週期的最後階段,訓練物件會切換到隊內最強的選手。格里菲斯會跟戈登打全力的實戰。所有人都清楚世界上沒有比戈登更強的對手,能跟戈登打出一場有來有回的實戰,本身就是極強的訊號。這種實戰的目的在於拿到一個準確的自我評估,贏下來並不要緊。

一旦你在實戰裡跟世界上最強的那個人交過手,你非常清楚,走上 ADCC 的墊子,你誰也不怕。(約翰·達納赫)

與此並行的是比賽日程。運動員被安排去打 WNO、ADCC 選拔賽、奧斯汀本地賽事,目的是讓他們習慣在人前表演、被陌生人圍觀和評判的那種氛圍。距離 ADCC 大約三週時,比賽全部停掉,避免受傷。

兩條線合在一起:訓練難度封頂,比賽經驗鋪底。信心就是這樣一層層堆出來的,靠的是訓練結構,演講起不了這個作用。

比賽沒那麼特別

達納赫給運動員的心理訓練裡,核心只有一個概念:把比賽重新理解成一件正常的事。

大多數人把訓練和比賽當成兩件事。訓練是每天做的日常,比賽是例外:有觀眾,有燈光,有噪音,有儀式。

賽事方還會主動強化這種區分。他舉了戈登對安德烈·加爾旺(Andre Galvao)那場的例子。兩個人是直接走上墊子開打嗎?完全不是。有音樂,有入場儀式,舞臺上真的在噴火球。

他們想製造的是戲劇和儀式感。實際發生的事情只是一場纏鬥比賽:兩個運動員,一個裁判,一套規則。這就是全部的現實。他們想賣給你的東西偏離了現實,他們想讓你相信這場比賽 somehow 更大、更不一樣。(約翰·達納赫)

這個觀察可以推廣到幾乎所有競技專案。開幕式、燈光秀、解說鋪墊、賽前對峙,全是在給一件本質上很樸素的事情加殼。

殼加得越厚,運動員越容易在心裡把這場比賽供起來。一旦供起來,人就緊了,緊了技術動作就變形。

達納赫的做法是把殼拆掉,讓運動員在心理上把比賽還原成訓練。他有一條 Instagram 帖子把這件事講得很清楚:

當你準備邁出人生中最重要的那一步時,問自己一個問題:這跟你每天做的事情,到底有多大區別?如果答案是很小,那就帶著信心往前走,用你每天的方式去做,忽略所有的炒作和干擾。你已經準備好了。(約翰·達納赫)

這句話的成立有個前提:你的日常訓練必須真的在強度、對抗水平、壓力條件上逼近比賽。日常訓練是松的,這句話就退化成自我安慰。所謂心理強大,底子在於日常訓練已經把該做的事做完了。

教練和運動員之間的那條代際裂縫

聊到隊伍分裂,達納赫沒有把責任推給任何一方。他給出的解釋裡有一個很少被提起的視角:年齡。

他比學生年長很多,成長環境和世界觀跟這一代人完全不同。從運動員那一側看,處境是這樣的:一週練七天,水平飛速上漲,贏下幾乎所有被安排到面前的對手,偶爾輸也是一場硬仗。身邊所有人都在說你是天才,社交媒體上到處都是墊子上的神。

然後你走進訓練館,有個老傢伙告訴你,你還不夠好。

每天都是這樣:這個人到底想要我怎麼樣?我還要多努力?我說的是你要成為世界上最好的,我要你變得偉大。你所有的朋友都在說你多厲害,隨便就能降服我。然後這個老傢伙說你還得練,你練得不夠。(約翰·達納赫)

他接著說了一句很實在的話:到某個時刻,你必然會想,去他媽的這個老傢伙。

這句話背後是理解,不摻抱怨。他自己二十歲的時候,跟權威人物的關係一塌糊塗,完全合不來。

當你已經做得比全世界百分之九十九點九的人都好,還有個人一直在你耳邊說不行、還不夠、你技能包不完整、你還需要這個那個。我當然理解你想說的是讓我先享受一下。可人生就是一個選擇。(約翰·達納赫)

這個選擇是:做到你所能做到的極致,或者走另一條路,多享受一點生活,去做點別的事。生活裡不只有訓練館的內牆,不只有更好的足跟勾和更好的雙腿摔。

這段分析裡有個更深的層次。非常好是一個很難處理的狀態。它足夠好到讓所有人都來誇你,又不夠好到讓你心甘情願繼續忍受那種枯燥和否定。真正難的地方在於從很好走到極致,而這一段路上,讚美會變成阻力。

他提到另一個現象:拿到奧運金牌之後,運動員回到訓練館要重新信任那個老傢伙,重新相信還有成長空間,還要保持謙遜。這件事極其困難。金牌之後緊跟著的往往是抑鬱,因為你把太多自我投射在贏這一件事上,贏完之後那個空洞就露出來了。

所以真正要問的問題,落在追的到底是什麼上:追贏,還是追某種超越輸贏的卓越。這個問題想不清楚,贏一次就會空一次。

被問到隊伍還有沒有可能重聚,達納赫的回答很坦率:有可能,可現在沒必要。那批人自己就是一支很好的隊伍,在 ADCC 上表現優秀,他們記得他教過的一切,用的還是同一套方法論在教別人。他們沒有缺口需要填。如果真回來,只能是因為他們想回來。當初導致分裂的那些性格衝突,現在還在。

他說起在 ADCC 現場遇到老隊員的情景:

我們相處得像房子著了火一樣。就像從來沒有過任何問題。(約翰·達納赫)

這句是紐西蘭俗語,意思是極為投緣。萊克斯當場開了個玩笑:只有紐西蘭人會把房子著火當成好話。

玩笑之後是那句更重的話:

一分鐘的憤怒就能毀掉十年的友誼。可那十年本身也是有分量的。(約翰·達納赫)

別信把自負留在門外

很多人問達納赫,怎麼管理一屋子巨大自負的人。他的立場跟主流教練的話術正相反。

人們總說“把自負留在門外”。你覺得是什麼在驅動競爭?你想在任何事情上做好,就必須有自負。我不認為壓抑自負是好的,甚至不認為它是健康的。(約翰·達納赫)

理由很現實。這個專案每個級別只發一塊金牌。運動員水平越高,越會盯著身邊的訓練夥伴想:我將來得跟他打。這些人每天挨著一起訓練,張力必然存在。一整屋子被訓練成 alpha 競爭者的人關在一個房間裡,摩擦必然發生。

他承認自己在這件事上成功過八九年,可任何管理體系都有臨界點,過線就會失控,就會週期性崩一次。他帶過的學生裡,離開的不止這一批,以後也還會有。

這就是這件事的本質。發生的時候很難受,可生活繼續。布考斯基說過,愛是一陣霧,在現實的第一縷日光裡散去。大概是這樣。連愛都是暫時的。(約翰·達納赫)

這一年裡真正能帶走的東西

  • 把信心當成結果,別當成前提。去找心理暗示、勵志影片、賽前動員,收益接近零。回到訓練裡,設計一組能在接近比賽條件下被驗證的技能,反覆成功,信心自己會長出來。
  • 進攻用降級對抗,防守用升級對抗。練新東西時找水平低於自己的搭檔,讓成功率高到能形成正反饋;練防守時直接扔進最難的場景,先被打出問題,再一層層補。
  • 給難度裝一個刻度盤。像加槓鈴片一樣加阻力,柔術裡就是換對手水平。突破靠梯次推進,別靠硬扛。
  • 把比賽還原成日常。上場前問一句:這跟我每天做的事有多大區別?如果區別很大,該改的是訓練設計,心理層面改不動這件事。
  • 日常訓練要真的像比賽。強度、對抗水平、壓力條件都得逼近平比賽,否則那句“這跟你每天做的一樣”就是自我安慰。
  • 給團隊裡的張力留出物理空間。波多黎各的教訓很具體:一群人關在一個小鎮裡,訓練、生活、吃飯全在一起,任何矛盾都會被放大。城市的大小有時候是一種必要的緩衝。
  • 別壓抑自負,給它找出口。自負是驅動力的來源,壓不住也不必壓。該做的是設計賽程、分組和溝通機制,讓這股力量有地方釋放,別讓它在私下裡發酵。
  • 低谷期用時間換空間。達納赫在最黑的時候沒有做任何激進動作,他同時相信兩件事:糟糕的事都會過去,只要給一批新學生他還能重建。

最有意思的部分在最後。一支隊伍從解散邊緣爬回巔峰,路徑是每天兩次課、一週七天,在奧斯汀一家小館裡一個個看人、招人、帶人,用一年時間重新攢出一支隊伍。

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Please check out our sponsors in the description, and now dear friends, here is John Donaher. The ADCC is the premier submission grappling tournament in the world. We just had it a couple of weeks ago. We saw many demonstrations of greatness from athletes you coached, but a year ago. The team and you were at a very low point. Take me through that journey. What was the lowest point? We had a very very tight team for many years, which began in New York City. During the peak of COVID training in New York became very difficult to sustain. So most of the team despised the city of New York. I was the only person in the group that liked living in New York. I think part of the problem was that I was the only one who actually lived in Manhattan. The others had to commute to New York, and there is a world of difference between living in New York and commuting to New York. So most of them had a very negative view of New York City. That was compounded by COVID when even the basic active training became very very difficult, and so everyone decided they want to leave. So there was a prospect of. A complete breakup between myself and the team, or I would have to leave New York. There was a difficult decision for me to make because I had lived in New York for thirty years. I had built my life there and had most of my friends and associates that I know here in America, New Yorkers. So I thought you know these guys have been unstain incredibly loyal to me as students, so I should also be loyal to them of course. So I decided that if they wanted to leave, I would go with them. We decided to go to Puerto Rico because there was a private gym where we could train through the COVID period. I personally wanted to go to Texas. I thought that Texas was a better place for the team to go, but many of the students, including senior students like Gordon Ryan, Craig Jones, had been to Puerto Rico and stayed with one of the head officials of ADCC Mojazim. So they loved their experience in Puerto Rico, and almost everyone wanted to go down there. So I tried to explain to him there is a world of difference between going to a place for vacation versus living there, but that didn't. Have any effect, so the decision was made a majority decision was made to go to Puerto Rico. In Puerto Rico, the conditions in which the team lived changed significantly. When you are in New York, New York is such a big city that if there is any. Tension between team members and inevitably there will be in a competitive sport where everyone's fighting each other, you can kind of bury them in the size of the city because there is so many distractions in New York. You know you come and you do your workout, you go outside and it's it's New York City. In Puerto Rico, we lived in a very small local town, Dorado, and most of the athletes were living with each other. And so unlike New York where there was always a break, you trained together, but when training was over, you went about your life in New York and New Jersey. With everyone living in very close proximity to each other, any tensions. Got magnified because there was no relief from them. You didn't get to get away from people if you had a problem someone on the mat or now you have to to live with them for the rest of the day and the night, and this goes on for long periods of time. So I believe it had the effect of magnifying whatever tensions there were. In particular, there was a family tension between two brothers which magnified over time. And you know as so often is the case, you get two brothers growing up one. Older one younger and the younger one wants to grow and and feels somewhat like a young tree underneath a bigger tree, and sometimes people just need their space. So there was there was some unhappiness and. As a younger brother, I can understand. Yeah, yeah, as a little tree that had to grow up under a bigger tree. Yeah, so fuck the big tree. There is a lot of aggression. Have to work out. I am sorry unresolved family issues coming out here. That's your turn. I am just kidding. I love you. He doesn't. He's lying. So as time went by, these tensions started increasing. They came to a point where it was difficult for them even to be in the training room together. At that point, you are starting to you know when once training takes a hit, then you you got to start to address these. The attempts at reconciliation fell through, and a decision was made to to move to Texas. I wanted everyone to move as a team. What I wanted to do was keep the team together. As long as the period leading up to ADCC, so that everyone could train together. So I said okay, there is problems, but let's just tough it out one year. We move to Texas, let's just go there and keep unity. Some people don't want to train with other people that's fine, but I believe that the team would be weakened by breaking apart. I believe that they had an excellent rapport as training partners. Their technical level was increasing dramatically. Many of the younger athletes were really starting to come into their own and really develop well, and so my take on it was okay if there is problems. So be it, but let's all just stay together until ADCC twenty twenty two as a unified team, go out, prepare yourselves as best you can, and and then after that we can make a decision as to whether we break up or not. But that was rejected, and the team split, and they moved to Austin. We had made prior arrangements to go to a local gym, and they took that gym, and we were left. With no gym and more or less homeless in in Austin, so a year out from ADCC. Yes, this is one year out. So roughly three quarters of the competitive athletes left in in one week. So at that point, that was probably the lowest point because at at that point not only do we not have a place to train, we had very few training partners for the few that had remained. And the main athlete in the team Gordon Ryan was going through a particularly bad spell with his unresolved stomach issues, and there was doubt as to whether or not he could compete at all and was. Actively thinking about retiring from the sport, so maybe not compete ever again. Potentially, yeah, yeah. So that that was a time when I was like, man, the whole program seems to be dead in the water at this point. Most of the competitive athletes were gone, there were very few training partners for the few that remained, and the main athlete around whom the group had initially bonded. Was seemingly out of action possibly permanently. What was your mind? What were you mentally? My my thinking is everything bad passes in time. I've had a lot of bad points in my life, so my life experiences whenever things seem dark. Have patience. Time will ultimately cure most ills, not all of them, but most of them, and I am confident that if you give me a new crop of students, I can I can produce magic, but. It's going to take time. So that confidence was in part a source of strength. Yes, it's just like I wasn't confident that ADCC twenty twenty two would go well because we only had one year without a gym and with. A team that was completely broken up to to to even an attempt to get into ADCC, so things looked a little grim, but I was confident you know given enough time I get in a new. Group of students and work, as it turns out, one of the demonstration partners that I used during filming for instructional videos. Who lives in Boston, John Carlo Bedoni was interested in the idea of. Coming down and training, but he had always felt like it would be difficult because there were people in his weight class who were already there and he felt it would be awkward. But now that they had left, that opened up an area for him. So he was the first one to come down. He moved from Boston to Austin, Texas. I began teaching at a local school. It was rather like going back into my earliest days in judo. So I went from teaching at the Big Hensokrace Academy to a tiny school in Puerto Rico and now an even smaller school in Austin, Texas. And locals would come in and train, and I would watch every day teaching there twice a day, seven days a week. And I would see people come in and train, and I would say this guy has some potential or this guy has some potential, and I would recruit people and bring them to an another gym where they would train with the professionals. And if they. Proved adept and hard working and someone who can work well in a team, they would stay and build their skills. As time went by, more and more such people started coming in, and we had some remarkable people like a young South African purple belt, Luke Griffith, came in. He had lost in the European trials for ADCC, and he was down on his luck. He came into Austin, he did a show against a local purple belt and lost again. So he was. I feeling bad about his performance and his future, and he came in and I thought he was a lovely kid who worked hard and trained well. So he became one of the main training partners. He was similar size to Gordon, so I encouraged him to train with with Gordon whenever he could. And more and more people started coming in to train under that kind of basis. One day I got a text from Gordon who was filming an instructional video in Boston. He said, "Hey, you know Nicholas Miragali was training at this. He was shooting video at the same time as me, and we we just did some grappling. He's a really nice guy, and he's literally never trained with without a g before. He's. " For those of you who don't know Nicholas Miragali is a one of the outstanding g judo zoo competitors of his generation, has an amazing game and is a superstar with with the the g side of the sport, but had never even trained without a g once in his life. So his first ever. No g training session is with Gordon Ryan, the best no g competitor of all time, and I remember Gordon texting me saying, "Hey, he's really talented. He's a nice guy and he wants to come down to Texas and train. So yeah, sounds great. " So over time, just more and more people started coming in, and I told everyone like. You guys are at a severe disadvantage. Like you, you've got very little time to get ready for ADCC. Luke wasn't even in ADCC. He had to win trials. Same for Dan Manassou. He had failed at trials and needed to get a win to even get into ADCC. So around this time, a doctor suggested by Mojazim who had himself had stomach issues earlier in his life. Began working with Gordon Ryan. And Mo's the organizer of ADCS. Yes. Yeah, he's the the head organizer. He was able to get Gordon Ryan not cured but. Significantly better than he was before, and to a level where Gordon could could train up to five to six days a week. And that was a big improvement on what was going on during the end of the time in Puerto Rico. So things started moving. We had a core group of athletes training at a local gym, which was very very generously offered to us by. The head manager of Rocasunglasses, a company here in Austin, Texas. They have a private corporate gym which we were able to train in. And these talented youngsters from around the globe essentially came together and I said you guys are going to have to train harder than you've ever trained in your life because you've got less time to get ready for this. Than anyone and you are going to be going up against people potentially who. Know exactly what I teach because I've been teaching them a lot longer than I've been teaching you, in addition to the other best people in the world. So it was an an incredible challenge for them and I must say all of them. Gave literally everything they had everything I asked for they gave twice as much and we had a crazy training schedule many as three classes per day I know that sounds easy you know three classes a day but. Try doing it sometime. These classes are not your average classes. These are preparation for ADCC. They're both mentally and physically very very hard and we had many people come in and try to train alongside us and they fell. Off by the side of the road within days forget about weeks months or a full year of this. I gave a very abbreviated set of skills for the athletes. I chopped everything down to what I believed were the the most essential skills. Anything that wasn't essential to ADCC preparation was just pushed aside. And they had to focus almost entirely on ADCC with one exception I'll come to that soon. Over the the period of their training here in Austin. So it was. Compounded by time and also by the breadth of skill that I taught everything was just purely for ADCC preparation in a very short period of time. Dan Manassouy. And Luke Griffith and Oliver Tazza all won European trials and got into ADCC. Nicholas Miragalli was already a superstar so he was invited but he had to show himself so we enrolled him in local shows here in Austin where he had his first three. Nogi matches and with each match you could see progress being made and so that convinced the ADCC people okay he's good enough to to compete. He ended up winning decisively a match against one of the greatest American grapplers of all time Rafael Lavato and this was like a clear sign that his. Skill level and Nogi was sufficient to to justify an invite, and by the way Lavato an incredible. Set of matches in this ADCC. Yes, that was actually very impressive and retired. Yeah. Which is really impressive and heartbreaking as well. But if you go out that's a good way to go out. Indeed, so there was this long and tough preparation and it was compounded by the fact that as Gordon felt better he felt a need to. Build up his own competitive record prior to ADCC because he had been inactive for so long with his stomach issue so he proposed one of the most ambitious. Fight camps that I've ever heard of in grappling, which was he would take on the current WNO champion Pedro Marino. Who's number one is WNO. And also I believe the current no Nogi world champion and IBJJF as a tune up match as a warm up match then he would fight his old nemesis. Felipe Pena, the only man who submitted Gordon at black belt and had defeated Gordon in an ADCC match in 2017. And then ADCC itself so there was going to be three big high profile matches back to back. And very different rule sets so WNO was a 15 minute match the fight with Felipe Pena was no time limit which is a very different format to competing and then ADCC. So we had to drag out a 14 week camp covering three matches with three different rule sets which went in diametrically opposite directions. And the entire team had to go through all of this over this 14 week period in addition to the previous year that they had been working hard. There was a further complication in the midst of all that's Nicholas Miragalli had to go to the Nogi World Championships and we had to throw an extra morning class for that to help him get ready. Nicholas went on to win the open weight gold medal in the Nogi competition and then the next day had to come back to Texas and begin his ADCC preparation it was. A crazy crazy time but they all came through it so well I'm immensely proud of what they did and shockingly in the space of less than 12 months we went from rock bottom to having a more successful ADCC. Team performance than we did the previous ADCC. It was in fact the most successful team performance of the event and as testimony to how hard those those young men worked in in the course of less than a year to prepare themselves. If I can just linger on the low point, is it heartbreaking to you that the so called Donaher death squad split or the team as it was originally called split. You know we live a short life on this earth and you put so much of your love and work into this team and everybody put in the work does it break your heart. It was a sad time yeah it was it was a. You know I'm not a particularly emotional person but it was it was an emotional time for everyone it was it had an element of tragedy insofar as not only was it a team breakup it was also a family breakup which is much more serious. I do believe that in time. Even the most intense family breakups can be reconciled, and I also believe that once dialogue begins. People will remember just how easy it was for us to get along and how tight we were for many many years. It's so easy to let. A minute of anger destroy 10 years of of friendship, so. But there's also the weight of those 10 years. They when I ran into the old squad members at ADCC we got along like a house on fire it was like we never. Had a problem. A house on fire is a good thing. Yes yes sorry that's a New Zealand expression yeah. Yeah they definitely could have gone the other way right so only a New Zealander would say that is a good thing yeah. So there's there's I still believe you know in in time things will be fine but. There was an element where you know youngsters need to grow and sometimes. Think think about this way from the athlete's perspective. There's definitely a generational problem. I'm much older than my students. Okay and the the the years and the the viewpoint that I have is a reflection of the time in which I grew up. And they're from a completely different generation with a completely different world view. It's it's got to be hard from the athlete's perspective when you're training seven days a week and you you're getting very very good you're beating everyone that's getting getting put in front of you. You're losing very very rarely and it's always a tough competitive match when you do. Everyone around you is calling you a superstar and you look phenomenal. You check social media everyone saying you're you're a god on the mat. And then you come into the gym and there's some old guy telling you you're not good enough. And every day it's like what does this guy want from me how how hard do I have to work like you're not good enough like I want you to be the best in the world I want you to be good I want you to be great. And all of your friends are telling you today man you're incredible you submit me so easily do this and then this old guy is saying that. You got to get better you got to work more you're not working hard enough. At some point you got to be like you know what fuck this old guy. Like it's it's tough you know mentally I get I you know they they left when I was 20 years old I didn't get along with authority figures at all and. To have someone telling you you've always got to work that little bit harder no your skill set's not complete you still need this this and this when you're already. Doing very very well and far better than all but a tiny tiny percentage of people and then. You've got this guy constantly telling you no more has to be done you're not there yet. I can you know of course I understand you just want let me just enjoy this more like it's always a choice in life you. You can be the best you possibly can or you can. Go a route where you just get to enjoy life a little more you do other things you know like there's more to the to life than just the inside of a gym and learning how to do a better heel hook or a better double leg. So of course you know years go by you want to try the things and. You have to make this choice in life between extreme excellence versus being incredibly good but maybe just enjoying my life a little more. It's so interesting that incredibly good is a hard thing to deal with I saw like when Caleb Harrison won her first gold medal. And the Olympics, you know to go back to the gym and to trust again the maybe the old man you're being. Do questioning yourself but to trust the old man so Jimmy Page on Jimmy Page senior in that case to say okay we're going to go back to this grind and there's still. A path to improvement there's still a lot to grow and still have the humility even though you've just demonstrated greatness. So really good is just the stepping stone to to to to true greatness. That's really tough for athletes like winning is actually very difficult gold medal is a very difficult. Plus there's the personal stuff of depression that comes with that which is you give so much of yourself to trying to win that once you do. There's a lot of personal stuff you have to deal with which is like what what do I want from life. To understand what is exactly what am I chasing is it just winning or is it some bigger picture of excellence that's beyond just winning. So that that's all all of that mixed up together and then when you have to be as a team really close together there's the personal relationships all of that gets exacerbated. Do you think the team ever gets back together? I think there's a you know there's definitely a chance of that right now I think they have an excellent team themselves and they're doing very well they had an excellent performance at ADCC so there's not a need for them to. To come to us is not like they they lack anything they still remember everything I taught them they still coach and teach with the same methodology that I taught them so I don't think they have any need to do so. If they did it would be because they wanted to. I still think many of the same personality conflicts that originated the conflict would reemerge. Currently if if they started training together by the way to pile on the compliments they have really nice merch to the t-shirts are just excellent. What have you learned from that process about how to have a team with personal conflicts? Do you have to deal with these giant egos as well? Yeah, ego is is in part of superpower too so you don't want to yeah you you don't want to suppress egos like I always laugh and people say leave your ego at the door. Like what do you think drives competition like if you want to be good at anything in life you got to have an ego. No, I don't believe it's good or even a healthy thing to suppress egos. I'm a realist and I understand that this is a sport where they make one gold medal per weight division. As guys get better they're going to be looking at their training partners and thinking like. I'm going to have to fight this guy one day and they're training next to each other of course there's going to be tension there's always going to be. Disagreements about you know what's the right way to act around certain people certain issues and people are going to come into conflict everyone's. Being programmed to be a an alpha competitor and you get a room full of people like that there's going to be conflict. Now your question was well is there a way to resolve this yeah there was and for. Eight to nine years I was very successful with this but there's also a tipping point where things can flare out of control and there will be periodic breakdowns you know they're not the first students I had that that left I've been coaching a lot longer I've been coaching the squad. And I'm sure in the future there will be other students who leave me like. That's just nature of the beast it's sad when it happens but life goes on. Like Bukowski said love is a fog that fades with the first daylight of reality or something like that so even love. Is temporary. Let me ask you about leading up the the preparation. For the athletes I mean this is such given the darkness from from a year ago from which you had to find glimmers of light and try to get greatness out of athletes. What was the mental preparation like for Gordon for Nicholas. For Giancarlo for the other athletes what was the mental side of things like is there some key insights you can give to their mental preparation. I really think that people when they talk about mental preparation need to take a step back and realize that almost every element of what people describe as mental preparation has physical underpinnings. Literally 95 percent of what I teach the athletes is physical skills and it's my belief that every. Mental aspect of competition the most important which will be confidence on stage is a direct result of the the accumulation of physical skills. People tend to see things like confidence as a mental state. It is, but it comes out of. The performance of physical skills. All my life I've seen sports psychologists try to. Create confidence in athletes through non physical means and it always ends up being the same kind of cheesy motivational speeches, highlight video reels where they try to pump. Artificial confidence into people and I've never been impressed by this nor have I seen have any kind of positive effect on on athlete performance. What I do see build confidence is the sense that athletes are developing skills and using them successfully under conditions that closely mirror. The event they're preparing for once they get this down that's where true confidence comes from confidence doesn't come from words it comes from accumulated skills which experience shows you have. Been responsible for successful performances in the past and if you accumulate enough of these your confidence rises. So when it comes to the mental aspects of competition I created a program where everyone had was given a set of skills that they had to work on skills directly related to what I believe is the most important elements of success in ADCC competition. In the gym they accumulated those skills over time. I do it in two different ways depending on whether these are offensive skills or defensive skills. For the accumulation of offensive skills I like to have my athletes work with athletes who are lesser than themselves in ability so they start to. Gain confidence over time just as you would never send a beginner into a weightlifting gym and put 500 pounds on the bar and tell them to lift it rather you would start with. A wooden bar then the metal bar and then gradually accumulate weight over time so you get a progression in weightlifting so too in judo too you don't. Take a brand new move and say okay do it on Gordon Ryan never going to succeed. I have the athletes practice their offense on blue belts and work their way up. Defense on the other hand. You've got to start them in the deep end of the pool so that they start to see what are their vulnerabilities. Okay so I put them with highly competitive athletes at the start so they can see okay there is a problem here and then even in defense they start off with lower belts and build up their confidence over time. So just as a weight lifter builds up his ability to build weight, so to a judo player does it by gradually increasing resistance. Now in judo resistance is not done by weight it's done by skill level and so over time they started to accumulate this experience. In time, they we were able to switch off and have them go against. Very very tough athletes each other so you know Luke Griffith will do a full power match with Gordon Ryan now. They're fully aware that there's no one better in the world than Gordon Ryan. So if you have a competitive match with Gordon Ryan that's a very very healthy sign. So they went from the start where they were being programmed going against relatively mild resistance and building up over time and then building up to the greatest resistance possible in the sport of judo too. And their goal is not to win obviously but their goal is to. Provide a competitive match. Now Gordon doesn't have any confidence issues, so for him it's just good hard competitive training against people that are. In some ways better than those he'll be facing in competition. For the other guys, it's getting a clear assessment of what their current skill level is. By going against the best there is, then we add to this a competitive schedule where the athletes have to go out into competition so they get used to the idea of performing in front of strangers. On stage, getting used to the the strange elements of going out being observed and judged by people you don't know in a performance atmosphere. And so they were all given matches in WNO competition leading up to the event, ADCC trials local grappling events here in Austin and given a competitive schedule to fight and prepare them for ADCC. Obviously as ADCC got closer and closer this was pulled back because of the danger of injury so within. About three weeks out was the last time we had a competition, and by this method confidence starts to grow, and and so the mental preparation came out of those physical underpinnings the idea of progressive resistance increasing over time. For both offense and defense, building up to a peak where they're going against the best athlete in the world so they can get an accurate assessment of where they stand. Once you give in a competitive match to the best guy in the world, you know damn well that when you go out in ADCC you are ready to fight anybody. And defense is broadly defined, so defense in in symmetrical positions like positions like guard, and then defense also includes escaping from horrible positions. Yes, we're big believers in the idea of depth of defense, the idea that you should be able to mount defense all the way through from early stages based mostly around anticipation of identifying danger visually before it emerges and all the way through to the deepest levels of defense where you are 100 defensive and terrible positions and you have to claw your way out and over time and get back to a neutral position or even better back to an attacking position. You have an Instagram post on this topic. When you get ready to step out for the biggest moment of your life, ask yourself one question: How different is this really from what I do every day? If the answer is not very different at all, then step forward with confidence and do what you do every day in the same manner and ignore the hype and distraction. You are ready for action. By the way, for people who don't know, you need to follow John Donner Donner John on Instagram because you have nuggets. Or large buckets of nuggets of wisdom often which is quite profound even bigger than jujitsu but anyway so there is some aspect where you want to mimic the conditions of your daily training. In intensity in in what for so physical to that of the actual matches. You ask the question about mental training for me. The central focus of whatever small amount of mental training I give my students comes down to a very very simple concept to understand. This is the idea of identifying competition in terms of its normalcy. Most people see training and competition as two different things. Training is normal activity that you do every day, and competition is the exception. Okay, it's different. You are going out. There is people watching you. There is a big crowd. They're making lots of noise. Um. In fact, the promoters of shows go out of their way to reinforce this. Look at for example ADCC when Gordon Ryan went to fight Andre Galvon. Okay, do they just come out on the mat and fight each other? Absolutely not. There's music. There's pageantry. There's fireballs. They're literally shooting fireballs. Some dude in a tie sitting with Joe Rogan. I heard about that guy. Head, uh, podcaster comedian whatever. Which one was the meathead? Well played John Donner. Well played. But you see what they're trying to do. They're trying to create theater and pageantry when in fact it's just a grappling match. It's just two athletes, a referee and a ruleset. That's the reality. Now what they try to sell you is something which is not reality, which is this is somehow bigger and different. And they reinforce this with pageantry and theater so that it becomes not just a grappling match but a grappling performance the same way you have a

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